In the Long Run

This Mother’s Day is especially poignant for me, as I face my youngest child’s departure from home. My older children have already flown the nest, and now it is Big Guy’s turn to leave. Of course I will forever be my children’s mother, but I still feel a sense of loss.

I take a mental evaluation of nearly three decades of parenting. Did I teach my children the right things? Did I nurture them well?

A cross-stitch sampler hanging in my bedroom says:

There are only two lasting things we can give our children...one is roots, the other is wings.

It was instinctive for me, as with most mothers, to fiercely protect my children from physical harm and emotional insult, to strive to provide them with both the material and also the intangible necessities that make life enjoyable and satisfying, to instill in them a firm foundation of love and faith. I hope my efforts helped them develop not only roots and wings, but also the desire and confidence to use both of these gifts effectively and successfully with their own families.

To my little birds, M, L, D, and E: I think of you this Mother’s Day, and cherish each of you. It is an honor and a privilege to be your mother.

Posted by Cyppy at 3:34 PM